Systemic Support

Filial Therapy

Filial therapy is a process whereby parents or caregivers learn the skills to host play times with their children.

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"Every bit of success the parent achieves in successfully filling the prescribed role should have an effect many times more powerful than that of a therapist doing the same thing”

- Guerney, 1964

Filial therapy is designed to support children who may be experiencing social, emotional, and behavioural difficulties. It is based on the principles of play therapy; however, it differs in that the therapist teaches parents/guardians skills to provide therapeutic interventions or therapeutic play times for the children in their care.​

The focus of Filial Therapy is the relationship between parent and child. As the family progress in the therapeutic intervention, the parents gain understanding of their child and the child is able to experience the benefits of the strengthened relationship as well as the therapeutic approach. 

Research shows that the inclusion of family and care givers in the therapeutic intervention results in better outcomes for children. 

Filial therapy is predominantly used for children between the ages of 2 – 12 years, though can be adapted for children both younger and older. Filial therapy can be used with couples, individual parents/ caregivers, or groups.

How our Filial Support process works

Step One

Intake

The therapist meets with the parents/caregivers and discusses the child's presentation and reasons for referral. The process of Filial Therapy is discussed at this time, and a plan that will suit your family is created.

Step Two

Family Play Observation

The therapist then observes the family playing together. Through this observation the therapist gains understanding of family dynamics, and identifies areas for support.

Step Three

Demonstration

The parents/caregivers then observe the therapist play with the child. They are able to observe some of the skills they will be learning, and gain a stronger understanding of how this will look.

Step Four

Training

The therapist and parents/caregivers spend the next four or more sessions learning and practicing play skills to use in sessions with their child.

Step Five

Play Observations

Parents/caregivers spend the next few sessions being observed playing with their child, implementing their new skills. At the end of each play session the therapist will provide feedback.

Step Six

Family Play Observation

The therapist then observes the family playing together for a final time. Parents and caregivers then meet with the therapist to receive feedback on their therapeutic journey and growth.

Out Reach or In Clinic

Outreach is a big part of what we do. We are happy to work from your child's educational setting, and in some cases your home. Alternatively, we work from our space in Preston. Get in touch to chat about the best option for your child.

Benefits of Filial Therapy

By teaching parents the skills to have therapeutic play times with their children, the parents become the key agent of change, and will be able to use these play skills and play times, as needed with their children. As the relationship between child and parent/carer is already established, there is no initial phase of getting to know one and other, as there is with a therapist.​

A further benefit of filial therapy is that for families with multiple children, parents can use their learnt skills to host play times for each child, rather than just the child they sought therapeutic intervention for – building happy healthy relationships.

Healthy relationships between parents and children result in better psychological health and support the family to manage life’s challenges. Importantly, children gain positive experiences of play through this process, and they in turn, will then pass onto their children – extending the reach of this therapeutic intervention.

"Alex has been pivotal in our child's development, and has helped him gain a much greater capacity to express what he's going through. Play Therapy has been the perfect vehicle for our family's growth."

- Previous Client